The Charm in Dating Over 40

My mother passed away when I was 20 and left behind us two siblings who were well into their young adulthood and our 46-year-old father whose life seemed to revolved around his wife. In the beginning he was at a loss and could not fathom life without his wife of 24 years. It seemed to have become a dull and depressing life for my father until one of his colleagues suggested him to begin dating once the grieving period was over.

My father at first was quite offended by the idea, dating at his age? He was 46 for God’s sake! Though he has always been a handsome and smart man, he seemed to have no confidence in getting back into the dating pool. His colleague then sat down with him and talked through him the charm of dating over the ages of 40 and 50. The said colleague’s long term partner had realized she was a lesbian and left him, and so this colleague, at the age of 52 had explored over 50 dating sites and suggested my father to do the same. But of course, love can be nearby in the workplace and some men can check out these signs a girl likes you in the workplace to determine if its a relationship worth giving a shot for.

My father first thought the idea was absurd and too foolish to comprehend, but his colleague told him that a man’s value in a woman’s eyes increases as he ages. And that is quite true! We often see a young girl in her late 20s or early 30s in a relationship with a mature man. Just today Lady Kitty Spencer, 28, Princess Diana’s niece, was spotted with her 60-year-old lover Michael Lewis. What about George Clooney or Harrison Ford, 58 and 76 respectively? Women are still gaga over them than any 27-year-old. The older you get, the more attractive you are for a woman.

The comfort women have in dating a mature man is mostly because men at that age are settled in their careers, they know what they want, have more money and of course, are better in bed. Women loved to be wooed and a man who can buy her expensive flowers and take her for fine dining is much better than a college dropout for sure. Women love a man who has passion and drive and knows his goals and targets. Being with a young man who is still confused about his life is annoying, but a focused man is surely a big turn on.

And the most fun and exciting part, mature men are amazing in bed. They are much more experienced and do not end the game after three strokes. They know how to seduce a woman and make her feel grand with the bedroom tricks they have up their sleeves, which is definitely much better than a young lad who does not even know how to put a condom on. So, mature men are surely the hot property in the market, and they just need a bit of confidence to date literally any girl they want.

My father’s colleague then introduced him to singleandmature.com and the rest is history. My father has one hot date after the other, women both young and mature, and though I cannot say he has forgotten my mother, he surely is having a good time, is happy and content and cannot get enough of all the girls who are willing to date him.